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Positive Thinking – Surviving Negative Environments

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Positive Thinking – Surviving Negative Environments

In this video I’ll teach you how to deal with negative environments

You will find plenty of these wherever you go, simply because there are a lot of negative people around, so again a hazard you have to deal with regularly

1) Use Your Instincts
2) Keep Your Shields Up
3) Look Confident
4) Try To Change

1) Your instincts are your number one best guide, if you have a bad feeling about someone or a place, it is usually right. So if you get a feeling you shouldn’t go into that club, or bar, listen! Go somewhere else where you feel better about it.
If you feel like you need to walk or drive a different route today, do it.
Your instincts are trying to look after you, they don’t speak, they just try to tell you by feeling.

2) If you have to be in a negative place, like an office for example, many of us do, try to hang onto your energy and protect yourself as much as you can.
Very similar to dealing with negative people, be friendly, be pleasant, but don’t reveal too much, or anything personal that can be used to undermine you and gain power over you. Do what you need to do to survive, but don’t be a slave to it.

3) Look confident, don’t appear to get upset or get too emotional, it again appears as a weakness. Fine to do that when no one else is looking. Emotions are what make you more powerful than anyone else. But they’re used against you in negative situations. That’s why people who display fear are more likely to be victims, because people can instinctively read your fear, so mask it as much as you can.

4) Try to change negative places for more positive ones, you are in charge of where you go, what you do, so keep working on improving every aspect. Where you live, work, socialize. Upgrade them one by one.
Try to think of the end result of the great places you will be when you change, rather than focus on the bad situation you may be in, don’t focus on the obstacles, look ahead to the end result.

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Positive Thinking – How To Deal With Negative People

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Learning how to deal with negative people can be really tough, but you can do it if you follow three rules.

1) Deflect
2) Stay Calm
3) Put It In Perspective

If you can deflect other peoples anger and frustration, and not be affected by it, then they can’t get to you or drag you where they are.

You are responsible for how you think and feel, not them. They are external to you, so why should they be able to control you? They shouldn’t!

Don’t allow people to rent space inside your own head, it’s yours to decide what’s in there, not other people.

Stay calm and you stay rational and can think straight, don’t get into a primal state and start reacting like a primate would.

Put things into the correct perspective, in the scheme of things, is it really important what they did or said? Focus on the good memories from the past and present, however small, use that as fuel to realize you have something to be grateful for.

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He Fell In Love With The Image of Himself…

One of the best things that can happen to you in life is to find out who you are and why you are here.
It happened to me a while back, and it gave me a great deal of confidence in myself, the decisions I make and in my judgement of other people.

You will find grown men and women who have no idea what their “real” persona is, they’ve never looked.
Usually because they are scared of what they see, or have caught a glimpse in the mirror and it has been an ugly sight..

I love The Hall Of Mirrors By Kraftwerk and miss listening to it on vinyl, it’s lyrics ring very true

“The young man stepped into the hall of mirrors
Where he discovered a reflection of himself
Even the greatest stars discover themselves in the looking glass
Even the greatest stars discover themselves in the looking glass
Sometimes he saw his real face
And sometimes a stranger at his place
Even the greatest stars find their face in the looking glass
Even the greatest stars find their face in the looking glass
He fell in love with the image of himself
and suddenly the picture was distorted
Even the greatest stars dislike themselves in the looking glass “

I’m very glad to not have this problem, insecurity doesn’t rear it’s head much, things that made me very angry or really burned me up don’t do that anymore. I know 100% for certain I am doing the right thing, for the right reasons.
I’m here on this planet for a reason, and I know exactly what it is.

Other people have tried to control and manipulate me. It worked 15 years ago, WAKE UP!. It doesn’t work anymore.
You control by undermining someone’s confidence, attacking them personally, what they want to do, their friends, their loved ones….
It works on weak people, but when your wise to it you can see it coming, and it’s pitiful to watch someone grasp at controlling and get frustrated when it slips through their fingers. I pity all of them.

Being an INFJ personality type means you haven’t met too many, 2% of the population, so most people don’t know how to deal with that.
But the problem lies with in their own failings not you.

Stay strong to your convictions and what you do, but most of all look into yourself, be honest with who you are and you will have the best bullet proof armour there is, real soul…

So understand this: I can’t be broken, manipulated, undermined, destroyed or swayed from my path by anyone out there.
Those who try look like pathetic excuses of humanity, and then wonder what my secret is.
Why they can’t live without their “crutch” in life whatever it may be, and me I don’t need what drives other people.
I’m LAUGHING right now that some people cannot understand this.

I’m here to do one thing, I have a gift, I’m going to do all I can to share it with other people like you.
Then I can die happy that I did what I was put here on this earth to do, designed and engineered, this was always my set path to follow..

Anything less is a waste of my life, and I will not be interested in life, anyone or anything if I don’t do what I’m built to do.
I will grow old and die alone because the colour and the sparkle of the “real” world will have left me.

So the next time someone says to you you’re wrong, wasting your time, or attacks you personally, WAKE UP!
It’s war and the best weapon is to use your own belief in your true calling to shrug it off like a dying man’s failing grip.
I LOVE to watch people get all wound up about it, but that’s their problem, it’s not my fault your face has become distorted in the looking glass…

Be a soldier, stand up, fight covert, don’t let ‘em see the real you and you can survive and get through to your true goal

Until next time
The Ghost Walks With You……

Paul Bishop
The Ghost That Walks